DIVORCE BY MEDIATION is an active process in which the mediator helps you identify all the issues that need to be covered in your separation agreement. We will help you determine the what it costs to live apart and, using that information together with the current income, help you determine the amount and duration of support. We will show you how the State Child Support Guidelines apply to your situation. We will help you identify all of your marital assets, figure out their value, and help you divide them fairly. We will also help you make all of the future parenting decisions. Mediation is conducted so that their should be no losers- one spouse should not win at the expense of the other. DIVORCE BY MEDIATION is a non adversarial process helping people negotiate directly and dissolve marriages once the decision to divorce or separate is made.  We provide you with the opportunity to negotiate mutually beneficial terms in total privacy.  DIVORCE BY MEDIATION helps identify key issues concerning the division of personal and real property, support, parenting, and plans for the future. It helps eliminate the painful win-lose atmosphere that is part of all adversarial divorces. The process is a mutual search for a reasonable solution: neither partner can win at the other's expense. Resolutions must emerge from the process with a settlement created and accepted by both. Mediation can also deal with specific limited issues such as times of access, what to do with the house, or other issues specified by you at the start. The important aspects of DIVORCE BY MEDIAITON are that: it is nonadversarial.  You are partners in decision-making. It is mutual. You both must agree on solutions, or there is no agreement. It helps clarify areas of conflict.  Most couples have some conflict. The mediator helps you limit the conflict and discuss things productively. He gives you power. You control your own decision over your own life. It is best for your children. All of the discussions are tempered by the fact that you are both parents of your children and you will have a continuing relationship as parents after you have ended the spouse relationship. Most other forms of divorce negotiations forget the best interest of the children. In mediation it is paramount. You owe it to yourself, your children, and your future to know more about mediation. Fees are moderate and on an hourly basis. We charge no retainers. You pay only for the actual time you use. We ask that you share in the fees in a way that is appropriate to your situation,  remembering that the mediator is working for both of you. The average mediation takes 12 hours. Mediation of specific issues or for couples without children is shorter. How to proceed. All you need to do is to call us or email us and arrange for a mutually convenient appointment for you and your spouse to come in for no obligation, free consultation. At that time a detailed explanation of how we proceed is described. Both of receive the same information, and therefore each of you can rest assure that you will be on equal footing from the outset of the proceeding. DIVORCE BY MEDIATION is not legal service. The outcome of the mediations is a memorandum of understanding detailing all of your agreements that your attorney can review and incorporate into the formal legal documents. 

Divorce settlement agreement
You have decided to divorce or you have separated already and there is still no agreement, one of you, or both of you want to end the marriage. We can draw together all the options that are available to you and to check all the consequences that will show up from each option.
Our special method of mediation will build the bridge for you and your kids in your new life after the separation. In about  6 meetings we are going to make an agreement that will fit your needs in order to maximize your well being and happiness. We will draw a common agreement for your new way of life. We will answer different questions and feelings. We will make new techniques to dialog with the kids and to protect mutual interest.
We will make an agreement that will serve you in the present and future and will make all of you happy. The agreement will give you certainty and relaxation  in the new chapter of your life and the new structure of the economy of two families. The agreement will organize the life in both the material world and emotional world. The agreement will provide support for the parents who want to continue their life and have self empowerment. They will have self- confidence and will be happy with their economic situation, their kids, and their ex-spouse. It will take 6 meetings of 1 meetings a week of 2 hours each. The speed of the process will be determined by you. The cost of the agreement is much cheaper than going to court with a lawyer. In the last meeting we are going to go over the agreement and we will see it exists, its possible, and its ours from now ahead. Until the agreement has been reached we will discuss questions like what we will make you happy in your life from now on. 
 In the agreement that you will sign at the end, will answer those questions.  It will organize your life: the time the kids will spend in each house, where they will be, asset division, budget, etc. All what you think right now, and you believe is scary, will be made simple in the agreement and will clarify everything. The agreement will have ways to solve problems in the future, if they arise. You will not sign anything that you do not fully agree to. The agreement will help with communication between you and your ex-spouse and kids. It will help you keep your family value and well being and happiness. Our special and unique way of mediations will build a new road for your new chapter after divorcing. Cooperation with one another and mutual respect is key throughout. We invented this unique mediation process with consulting with a few professors that are recognized internationally for game theory, quantum physics, kabbalah and much more. 

We want to achieve few results:
1) We try to reach a result where the kids will not experience a big change from a house where they have a lot to a house where they have a little.
2) They will not experience one parent giving them a lot (economically) and the other parent can not give them.
3) We are trying to reach a result where the 2 house will not have an economic deficit.
4) We want a result where the 2 parents will reach economic prosperity, personal empowerment, and that they will increase their income in their free time.
5) We are trying to reach a result where the two parents will start each month with the same resources available after they remove all expenses.
6) We want to make an agreement that is very flexible and if there are changes for either parent or both then the agreement will also change.
7) We want to get a result where there is minimum disagreements that are related to themselves or the kids. 

I am here to help you. In our mediation we bring parental couples to new family arrangements, more desirable for you than the ones that exist. The model we developed will lead us step-by-step, effectiveness, discretion, mutual respect, toward the goals and objectives that will be defined in common. Together we can lead you and your children safely through the busy challenge of ending marriage and marital relations.  On average, six meetings (12 hours) are required until the agreement is signed.

Yours Ronen